David have been married for 3 years to Tina, a co-worker whom he was engaged for over 2 years. He considers their union to be generally peaceful and happy with quite a few bickering. Still without children, they have all the time to spend with each other anyway they want – a privilege that few married couples with children, rarely enjoy. But their constant closeness is becoming like a prison cell for David. He says, “We work in the same company, drive together and meet for lunch. Yet, we still email each other. If I don’t send her a SMS, she calls to check me up. And if I spend an evening with the boys, she complains. I love my wife, but after 3 years of marriage and us being too close, I feel trapped."
He will lock his keys in the car, he will fiddle with a coat hanger long after hypothermia has set in. Calling the AAA is not an option. He will win.
Researchers describe marriage as “the most risky undertaking routinely taken by the greatest number of people in our society.” A high percentage of those who jumped into the wagon found out that the journey is not what they thought it was. Once the marriage began to show instability and distress, couples instantly turn to the one and only convenient solution they know: Divorce.
Marriage is one of the happiest and memorable moments in our lives. It is the conjugation of not only two individuals, but also of two different upbringings and civilizations. After a sunny start of married life, there will be possibilities of some conflicts.
Writing letters is a classic way of manifesting one person’s feelings to another. They not only express unspoken words but also reveal the deepest thoughts of the person who wrote. Consider these:
If marriage is a travel, then for sure it's not the best one. Although every marriage is unique, somewhere along the marital highway, you will come across bumps in every intersection, your sex life included. This is not pleasing at all and you will set your marriage plummeting into a ditch unless you know how to spot the road signs and properly navigate. And if you play your cards well, the sex stuff and all the others will be better than ever.
One of the most complex problems that married couples face is meddling in-laws. Most of the time, it is the cause of frequent quarrels between husbands and wives. Here are ways to help you control them from poking around and trying to run your personal business.
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